Children’s Hospice Week (21 – 27 June) – Ordinary People, Extraordinary Lives with South Wales, Mid Wales and North Wales case studies

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Ollie as a baby

 Hafan and  Gobaith, two children’s hospices, are currently supporting more than 430 children with a life-limiting condition and their families across Wales. 

Now the two charities are joining forces to use Children’s Hospice Week to acknowledge the immense resilience and bravery of the children and families they support, people for whom everyday living often presents multiple and complex challenges, challenges made even harder by the pandemic.  

Maria Timon Samra, Chief Executive of  Hafan, said: “Families of a child with a life-limiting condition are already challenged in terms of how they live their everyday lives. They are ordinary people, living extraordinary lives. 

The coronavirus pandemic has multiplied those challenges to the nth degree. 

While so very many of us may have had to juggle home-working and home-schooling amid concerns about the impact of Covid on our families and loved ones, this is really put into perspective when we think of the parents of our hospice children.   

Over the past year, they have also had to be primary care givers for their lifelimited child 24/7, without the usual access to support networks. Their usual opportunities for relief have been cut off due to the various restrictions and shielding requirements.

Our hospices, which our families have described as their ‘lifeline’ have stayed open to provide crisis care and end of life support throughout the pandemic and are carefully and safely welcoming more families back. 

Andy Goldsmith, Chief Executive of  Gobaith, added: “We decided to use the occasion of Children’s Hospice Week to draw attention to these remarkable children and their families, to acknowledge just how extraordinary they are, all day, every day often with very little support, and how we, the children’s hospices in Wales are calling on the Welsh Government to provide families with the support they deserve and often desperately need, even more so since March 2020 when all of our worlds turned upside down. 

We also want to use this occasion to thank the thousands of individuals, clubs and societies, businesses and organisations that have supported  Hafan and  Gobaith so generously throughout some of our most difficult times – we thank them from the bottom of our hearts. We are always delighted when someone would like to help us in some way and we are always open to new offers and ideas,” said Andy Goldsmith. 

Demand for children’s palliative care services in Wales continues to increase and we are constantly evolving the services of our hospices to try to meet this need. While we were delighted to hear that our friends in the children’s hospice sector in Scotland will continue to benefit from 50% government funding,” said Maria Timon Samra, our charities receive less than 10% Welsh government funding.  This makes it very difficult to plan ahead, particularly in the current climate.” 

Andy Goldsmith added: “We now need step up our ask for fair and sustainable funding for children’s hospices in Wales so that Welsh children and their families are not unfairly disadvantaged. We are calling on the Welsh government to establish a Lifeline Fund”. 

For more information see: https://www.tyhafan.org/childrens-hospice-week/

Children’s Hospice Week, is taking place between the 21 – 27 May and is the UK’s only awareness raising and fundraising week for children with life-limiting conditions and the services that support them.
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Case studies 

Ollie’s story (Barry, South Wales) https://www.tyhafan.org/family-stories/for-us-t-hafan-is-a-total-lifeline/

Ollie as a baby
Sophie and Sean were just 22 when their little son Ollie was diagnosed with the ultra-rare MOSAIC Syndrome. Here Sophie shares their story and explains how Tŷ Hafan is, quite literally, a lifeline for the whole family.
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Ollie in baseball cap

Ollie is seven and has MOSAIC Syndrome, an inherited chromosomal disorder. He and his family, from Barry, have accessed crisis hospice care at  Hafan, which has also provided lots of sibling support and family support for him and big sister, Summer and parents, Sean and Sophie, helping them to cope with several family bereavements plus a particularly challenging time in the early part of this year when Sophie contracted COVID.

Jaiden’s story (Llandrindod Wells, Mid Wales) https://www.tyhafan.org/family-stories/jaidens-story/
Jaiden as baby in ICU
Jaiden in Scouts uniform
Jaiden, 14, has counselling and music therapy with Tŷ Hafan and all from the comfort of his own home in Llandrindod Wells. Here, he and mum, Anne-Marie, share their story and explain what Tŷ Hafan means to them.
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Jaiden playing pool

Fourteenyearold Jaiden had a liver transplant five years ago. Living with his parents and elder brothers in Llandrindod Wells, he doesn’t access hospicebased services but has massively benefited from Play Therapy and Music Therapy with  Hafan, because as, a cognitively able young man, Jaiden has previously struggled with emotional confidence and peer group interactions due to his condition.  

Matilda’s story (North Wales) https://www.hopehouse.org.uk/blog/matildas-family-story?locale=en

She’s complex, she’s unique, she is beautiful and we love her to bits, says Matilda’s dad Pete
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Meredith family do Disney

Michelle and Pete Hughes’ baby daughter Matilda was discharged from hospital just days into lockdown after a major operation. Shielding and unable to access the help of their close-knit family and friends they turned to  Gobaith for help. The support they received helped the family to feel in control, safe and not alone


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