National Adoption Week: Mon 17th October 

National Adoption Week: National Adoption Service for Wales

National Adoption Service places children waiting at the heart of the conversation in season two of Truth be Told: Adoption Stories podcast.

This National Adoption Week (17-23 October), the National Adoption Service for Wales is excited to announce the release of Truth be Told: Adoption Stories podcast, season two.

After achieving significant success during season one, for its second run, Wales’ only adoption podcast will place children waiting at the heart of the conversation, sharing the experiences of seven adoptive families on topics such as contact, education, support and trauma.

The six-episode series highlights the on-going need for a diverse range of adopters to come forward to provide forever homes for children, particularly sibling groups, children from a BAME background and older children.

One couple who share their experiences on the podcast are Clare and Gareth, who adopted in 2016. They adopted a sibling group of three.

Gareth said: “There’s a lot of children out there waiting a long time, which is a real shame. It’s because most people don’t want to adopt above the age of five or six.

“We had a great experience with the older two. Previously, they hadn’t had a lot of experiences like riding a bike etc, so there were still lots of first experiences that we had together.”

In Wales, one in seven adopters are from the LGBTQ+ community. This year, as we mark the 20^th anniversary of the Adoption and Children Act, which granted equal rights to same-sex couples applying for adoption, NAS has a clear message that adoption is open to all.

Abbey is a single Lesbian adopter whose son is almost two. Abbey speaks candidly throughout the series about her journey, and the special relationship she has built with her little boy.

She said: “You’re doing a two-person job on your own. There are days when I go to bed and I think I’m exhausted, but I wouldn’t change it for the world. If we are in the car and I see his little face in the back, even if we’ve had the worst day ever, I think he’s so worth it.”

NAS is committed to changing perceptions around adoption, particularly within BAME communities. It hopes honest conversations from adopters and adoptees will generate more enquiries for those children who are waiting longer for a family.

Mo adopted a one-year-old girl with his wife in 2021. The couple were keen to adopt a child from a BAME background as they felt they could maintain and build connections with her faith and heritage.

Speaking on the podcast, Mo said: “We hoped to be matched with a child from a BAME background for the aspect of religion and family.

“We wanted somebody who was also of Asian heritage as we felt it would have been easier for the child while growing up.

“Our social worker was amazing, she was on top of things all the time and we found the training informative.”

NAS will also join with charity, Adoption UK, to produce a special ‘takeover’ edition of the podcast,

featuring young adoptees who sit on Adoption UK’s ‘connected’ Youth Council. This episode will be released in early 2023 and will be produced and presented by the young people, to ensure listeners gain insight into the issues that matter to adoptees in 2022.

Suzanne Griffiths, Director of the National Adoption Service for Wales, said:

“We are so grateful to the families and adoptees involved in season two of Truth Be Told. By sharing their stories, they contribute to important conversations around adoption, and they help challenge outdated perceptions.

“Season one had a great response and we hope season two will be just as impactful. We are also excited at the prospect of the special episode with the Youth Council.

“We hope the young people enjoy telling their stories and gain some skills in media production along the way by working with industry professionals.”

In a UK first, the National Adoption Service recently announced their Adoption Support Commitment. This document ensures adopters, adoptees and birth families receive appropriate support along every step of their adoption journey.

Suzanne added: “The service is committed to supporting families at every step of their journey, whether at the start, when a child is placed, or later should any challenges occur.

“The commitment is the first of its kind and we hope alongside our engaging content, such as the podcast, will provide vital advice and shared experiences for those considering adoption.”

In addition to the podcast, regional activity will also take place across National Adoption Week, aimed at raising awareness in local communities.

Western Bay Adoption Service (Bridgend, Neath Port Talbot and Swansea) will be completing a circular walk of Pen y Fan to raise money and awareness for children’s charities.

In Mid and West Wales, The Perfectly Imperfect Pumpkin book launches. This book, about children embracing their differences and self-acceptance will be sent to schools in the region to encourage discussions around adoption and the themes of the book. Events being held in schools across the week.

The North Wales Adoption Service will take part in a 402-mile walk of the North Wales Coastal Path over the next year.

South-East Wales Adoption are publishing a blog written by adoptee Kris, who details his recent experience of adoption.

In the Vale, Valleys & Cardiff service, a joint blog is being produced between adopters and foster carers sharing experiences of maintaining contact.

And St David’s Children’s Society will be revealing its new brand.

For more information on National Adoption Week, and to listen to the podcast, visit the NAS website here.