Online safety: Expert shares how you can protect your child’s privacy online

• Safeguarding expert shares advice for parents when posting on social media
• New research reveals that over half (54%) of parents and grandparents choose not to post images of their children online
• 44% of UK parents named social media as the most important issue in modern society, ahead of climate change

Online safety is once again a hot topic, with Google searches increasing throughout February¹, and the Government’s Online Safety Bill carrying huge potential changes for the way we use the internet. 

With this in mind, a new study² commissioned by High Speed Training, a provider of online training courses in child safeguarding, has revealed that over half (54%) of Brits choose to hide the identity of their children when posting on social media, with nearly one in ten (9%) opting to blur or obscure their child’s face, whilst 45% choose not to post images of their children at all. 

Nearly half of those surveyed (45%) said that they would not share any information about their children or grandchildren online. However, of those who do post about their kids, nearly a third (31%) feel comfortable sharing their name or age, whilst one in ten (10%) are happy to share their child’s school, and a further 5% would share medical details. 

The impact of social media is an important issue for parents, with YouGov Profiles data³ showing that two fifths (44%) of UK parents named social media as the most important issue in modern society, ahead of climate change and immigration. Parents of children aged 16 or under are 20% more likely than non parents to name the topic as an important issue.  

Dr Richard Anderson, head of learning and development at High Speed Training, says: “What each parent chooses to share, or not to share about their child comes down to the personal preference of the individuals involved, but parents should be aware of the risks that can come with sharing information online, and that’s why we’ve shared our expert tips on safeguarding your children online:

1. Use a private account

“If you’re planning to share information about your child, we would recommend changing your social media account to private and checking through your followers to make sure you’re happy with who can view the information. 

“It is worth remembering that even when your profile is private, once something is online you may lose complete control of where, how and why your child’s image or information is used.”

2. Establish ground rules

“If you’ve decided that you’re comfortable posting about your children online, we would recommend that you establish some ground rules with friends and family for what can and can’t be shared at an early stage. 

“If you’ve decided that you’re uncomfortable sharing your child’s face, explain your decision and your reasoning to others who will be looking after the child. This can help avoid uncomfortable conflicts and arguments in the future if a friend or family member posts something you’d rather they didn’t.

3. Think of the digital footprint

“Before posting images of your children, it’s a good idea to first consider what information you’d be comfortable with a stranger in the street knowing, especially if you have a social media account that is public. 

“Once a photo is online, it could stay there indefinitely and could be seen by anybody – would your child be happy with that in 5, 10 or 15 years time? You should think about how large of a digital footprint you’re comfortable creating for your child before they have the ability to provide their informed consent.”

4. Consider the types of images you’re sharing

“If you are someone who wants to share photographs of your children online, try to be mindful of the types of images you’re sharing. For example, avoid sharing images of your child in the bath, or in a nappy/not fully dressed. Whilst these images are completely innocent and wholesome family moments, it’s best to keep them private as you simply never know who can access them online.

“Similarly, photos and posts that include key details about your children could unintentionally reveal more information about your child than you’re comfortable with. For example, a wholesome ‘first day of school’ post of your child in their uniform could reveal to strangers where they go to school. In cases like this, you should consider obscuring any identifying logos or distinctive parts of the uniform to keep information private.”

5. Consent is key

“If your child is old enough to understand, we would also recommend asking their consent before posting online. If your child is too young to provide consent, then consider whether it may be best to be cautious with the information you share before they are able to give permission. Is it something they might be unhappy with being online when they’re older? If so, it might be best to refrain from sharing online. Also, if your child says they’re happy but then years later decides they don’t want those images online, you should respect their wishes and privacy and delete them.

“It’s important to have open communication with your children on these topics, ensure they understand the potential risks of posting on social media, ask what they’ve been learning about the topic at school and ensure that they feel comfortable having a conversation about it with you. Having these conversations from a young age will also encourage your child to have a healthy relationship with social media as they get older and potentially create their own accounts.”

6. Don’t share images of other people’s children

“If you’re a parent of school-aged children, you’ll likely have been asked by teachers to not share images and videos of events such as assemblies and nativity shows online. Unless you have the consent of the parents of every child in your photo/video, you shouldn’t be posting them on social media.” 

Dr. Anderson adds: “Whilst the government continues working on the long-awaited Online Safety Bill, it will be interesting to see how conversations on the topic develop. As online safeguarding experts, we’re backing the bill and are keen to see it pushed through parliament, to ensure that safeguarding children is the top priority when it comes to social media use.”

To learn more about the safeguarding courses High Speed Training offers and to read more on what parents think about sharing information about their children online, visit: https://www.highspeedtraining.co.uk/hub/safeguarding-your-children-online/